Wednesday, December 27, 2006

More Internet Dating Fun!

I got this message tonight from a guy I have never heard from before. It starts out good and then it gets really strange:

I must say ... that you are a prettiest 47 year old that I have seen in a long time ... and a smile to die for ... I want to give you a present ... for I just feel your energy .... Have you read the books... "Conversation with GOD, Book I, II, II, Friendship with God and Communion with God" Written by Niele Doland Walsch. If you have ... GREAT!!!! then, you are a DYNAMO beyond ... if not ... I think, you shuld give it a try ... I think you will love the gift ... Have a good evening, Best regards, Michael
This was my response to this weirdo:

I have a problem when anyone tells me I "should" do something ... especially when they can't even spell the word right.

*smirk*

Show Me The Money!

Remember when I asked you a week or so ago to click on the grey Google AdSense window at the top of my blog? I also mentioned that I would be donating the money to charity. I couldn't decide which charity I wanted to support since my blog readers are a very international crowd.

Then someone sent me a link to http://www.kiva.org/ and a plan started forming in my head. Why donate the money only once when I could loan the money, over and over again, to help more than one project in different parts of the world? It's a great idea and the money will keep working to help others.

However, the total in my account has to get to $100US before Google will pay out so keep clicking!

Monday, December 25, 2006

Elf Off!

Apparently, I have too much time on my hands.

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Sunday, December 24, 2006

I'm Dreaming ...

... of a green Christmas! And it looks like my dream came true. There's no snow or slush, no ice or freezing temps. Just gorgeous sunshine today and more expected tomorrow. For someone who hasn't experienced a Canadian winter in three years, I've been truly blessed so far with relatively mild temps and not much precipitation. Certainly no white stuff has accumulated under my boots. In fact, I haven't had to wear my ugly winter boots at all!

I've done all my Christmas shopping, for me. Everything seems to be on sale for 50% off or more. I think I went a little bit overboard and will have to add up the receipts before deciding what I need to take back to the store. I did buy some new leather gloves for under $20 so I'll be keeping them. And I found a red velvet top for 80% off yesterday which came out to $9.20 with the discount. There are some unbelievable bargains out there!

I'm off to CFB Borden tomorrow for Xmas. My Dad and I are heading up to spend the day with friends in Angus, Ontario. A turkey dinner with all the trimmings awaits us, as well as Jo-Anne, her husband, their three kids and her parents, who are visiting from Nova Scotia. I'm really looking forward to it! Even though the kids are getting older, they are still a lot of fun to be around, especially during the holidays. That's what it's all about.

So, what are you doing for the holidays? Whatever it is and wherever it takes you, I hope your day is filled with laughter and love. All the best to you and yours!

Juliana xo

Xmas Palm Tree!

Check out this tree my friends David and Nancy put up for Xmas! Very cool ...

Monday, December 18, 2006

What He Said

Why does Christmas remain so popular when it is such an asinine and antiquated celebration? I mean, can you imagine if they invented it for the first time this year? 'Let's have a big festival, where everybody spends more than they can afford on gifts that nobody wants. Then, they can all pretend to be grateful whilst stuffing themselves with platefuls of unhealthy food.' It would never catch on. There are other things, too, that we do out of habit and obligation. And we can at least recognise and avoid some of these. If you want this to be a great week, honour what you feel, not what you feel you ought to feel.

Jonathan Cainer ~ For Librans, the week of December 18, 2006 (www.cainer.com)

Sunday, December 17, 2006

Use Your Mouse!

See the "Ads By Google" grey space at the top of my blog? If you click it, you will be directed to another webpage. Doesn't cost you anything and a few cents gets deposited into my Google AdSense account. When the account reaches $100US, I'll be donating it to a charity (and not pocketing the money myself). So use your mouse to do some good for someone else. Thank you!

Saturday, December 16, 2006

Ah HA!!!

Suddenly, it's all starting to maks sense to me! Here is my astrological forecast for Saturday, December 16, 2006:

LIBRA ~ (Sep 24 - Oct 23) Your Weekend

Later today, you will see a bright light in the sky. Gradually you will realise that it is in fact a spaceship from the planet Zarg. The aliens will land and invite you to join them as they return to a far more sensible world than this. Sadly, you will feel unable to accept their offer. This will be partly because they do not actually exist, but mainly because, despite the stupidity that surrounds you and the almost imbecilic behaviour of certain people, you are now coping surprisingly well.

Thursday, December 14, 2006

JAM The Scrooge

It’s happening. I’m getting older. It started with the new glasses and how I feel every time I go to the gym. More particularly, it is how I feel several days AFTER I’ve been to the gym. The last time I did dead-lifts, I could hardly get up from a sitting position two days later. *sigh* My insurance company just informed me that my monthly premiums are going down because I am now considered a “Mature Policyholder”. I’m glad someone thinks I’m mature.

So this whole Xmas thing is really starting to get to me. The next person who asks me if I’m “ready for the holidays” is likely to get a punch in the nose. The answer is: “NO!” I’m not ready and I never will be ready. There is nothing to get ready for. I’m not doing it anymore. I refuse. I am officially boycotting Xmas. No cards. No gifts. No Santa. No nothing. Any twinge of Xmas-ness that I felt when I saw the Swarovski Crystal tree at the Eaton Centre is gone. If you need me, I’ll be hiding under my bed until December 26.

Wednesday, December 13, 2006

Be Kind To The Environment

I have just read and signed the online petition here: "Packaging Regulations in Canada" hosted on the web by PetitionOnline.com.

I personally agree with what this petition says and I think you might agree too. If you can spare a moment, please take a look and consider signing the petition as well.

Julie Anne

More Maxine

Monday, December 04, 2006

Technology Rocks!

I remember when I got my first computer and started using email at home. That was in 1998 (I think). Now I've got a laptop, I'm using VOIP and blogging. There is so much I don't know but it's exciting to learn. Even my parents are online. We're all connected and the internet is shrinking the world. Last night, I was online with a friend in Germany, my buddy in Afghanistan and a potential date in north Toronto.

Speaking of "rock", check out this website full of live concerts from days gone by: Wolfgang's Vault.

I'm Dreaming ...

Sunday, December 03, 2006

News From Afghanistan

My friend "Joe" called me from Afghanistan again yesterday. It took him three tries to get through on the satellite phone before we were actually able to have a conversation. I haven't heard from him since he was in India in October. When I asked him how his leave went, he said that he ate and slept a lot, and spent time with his family and a girlfriend who came from Canada to see him. He is still out in the field, in the desert somewhere, with the Taliban close by. They are getting hot, fresh food once a week now (steaks and hamburgers) and they've rigged up a shower after boiling the water in kettles. A far cry from his usual three showers a day at home but better than nothing. The weather has changed and it is winter there now. At night, the temps drop radically and it rains constantly. He said they are all sick with colds. And he's smoking again so that doesn't help. He says they all smoke. There is nothing else to do but smoke and wait ...

He said they are getting pretty complacent when the bombs go off. His sargeant will ask, "Was that one of ours or one of theirs?" As we were talking, there was a huge ROAR and I could hear his belly laugh through the phone. He said a Tornado had just flown by, about 500 metres over his head and dropped some flares about a kilometre away. It was "just f***ing beautiful Jewels!" He told me that an A10 Thunderbolt flew over so low the other day, they could see the pilot giving them the peace sign and the Taliban "The Finger". LOL All in all, he sounds good - healthy and happy but anxious to get home. He says they all feel that this "war" cannot be won. But, for the most part, morale is good and the conditions are better in some respects (fresh food and showers) and bad in others (rain and cold). Although he assures me that the colder temps will work to our advantage because we're Canadian and we're "used" to it.

I should blog something ...

I should blog something. So many thoughts run through my mind on a daily basis. If I tried to put them all down, I would surely scare the crap out of my readers. I guess I could start with something innocuous tonight, like the weather. Normally I hate November. It's usually grey and cold and miserable. But this November was unseasonably warm in Southwestern Ontario and after two months of what seemed like no sun, November was a welcome relief! However, effective December 1, everything changed. A cold front moved in and my feet haven't been warm since. I am seriously looking for a boyfriend now. *grin*

I went to The Eaton Centre today to look around and they have this huge Xmas tree in the middle of the mall that is actually quite spectacular! It is a huge cone, stuffed with boughs of real spruce and Swarovski crystals in the form of snowflakes and other glittering decorations. I will have to go back with my camera because I can't seem to find a photo of it online. I actually had to stop and stare at it today, it was that amazing. If you get a chance, go take a look. It even managed to infuse a bit of Xmas spirit in me, for a moment, and then it was gone. Those of you who know me well, know I don't "do" Xmas. It is way too commercial for my taste.
If you want to give me anything, give me the gift of your time.

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Online Dating Sucks!

This is part of a message I received from someone responding to my profile:

I am tall, well educated and, according to some, still ruggedly handsome. I live and play in downtown Toronto. I take my coffee strong. I prefer my wine red and very dry. I enjoy films 'noir', sometimes violent but that always make you think. I can spend time alone developing intellectually or socializing on a sunny café patio; preferably, accompanied by you in a sun dress. I should warn you that I am a bit wilder then you think. (So have I scared you off yet?)

I seek some one who is intelligent, imaginative, and intuitive. She loves to laugh, tease and be teased. She can be sensual, impulsive, spontaneous, and creative. She should be a lady in public but open to experience a greater range of erotic pleasures behind closed doors. She is not afraid of passion.

Here is my reply to "Mr. Wonderful":

I do not generally take well to people telling me how to dress or what to wear, ever. Why bother warning me that you are "much wilder" than I think? I could not possibly have formed any opinions in that regard within the 30 seconds it took me to read your message.

And no, I am not scared off, just highly offended. Comments of an overly suggestive and/or sexual nature are not, in my opinion, appropriate in this forum. That shared knowledge would come naturally in the process of a mutual acquaintance between two intelligent, open-minded adults.

Unfortunately, that will never happen now, given your crude approach.
Thank the Goddess for the "delete" key. LOL

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Gym Etiquette

I don't know where I learned about "gym etiquette" but there are certain things you do and don't do in a gym. For starters, I don't go looking like I'm on a date. I wash off my makeup, add extra deoderant and dress appropriately. All the important bits and pieces are covered. If I want to wear a sleeveless top (important when training my arms), I place a towel over any equipment that touches my bare skin. This is for my protection as well as the longevity of the equipment. Sweat wreaks havoc on the vinyl covers of most benches and it only makes sense that there might be germs lurking around a gym, so better to try to be as sterile as possible.

I also return teh weights to the rack or stack, I try not to block anyone's access to another piece of equipment, I don't tie up more than one piece of equipment at a time, unless I am supersetting, and I don't socialize, much. I'm there to work. I'm not there to get picked up. I'm friendly, polite, ask if I can work in when necessary and generally just do my thing and leave. Tonight, I ran into a real jackass at the gym.

You know the type -- a young, brash, slightly overweight male with something to prove (although benching 105 pounds didn't impress me much!). In order to lift this miniscule amount (I can bench 65 pounds without training for a couple of weeks), he occupied a flat bench and had covered it with a towel. Fine. Then he wandered over to the receptionist desk to chat with her for five minutes. When I asked if he was done with the bench, the answer was a resounding "no". Next I saw him using the lat pulldown machine. Another five minute chat with the receptionist had me wondering what kind of program he was using. Then he proceeded to do arm curls with a lot of loud grunting and groaning, slamming the bar down when he was done.

I'm not exactly quiet when I train. I can grunt and groan with the best of them but mostly, I just exhale slightly louder than I normally would. But this guy was making his presence known in the gym. As in: "I'm here and I'm making a lot of noise so you'll notice I'm here." *sigh* Anyway, after waiting through a set of bench presses (loud huffing and puffing) and a set of lat pulldowns (loud moaning and groaning), intermixed with long, intense conversation jags with the front desk, I removed the weights from the curl bar and started working my biceps.

By the time he even noticed, I was finished my first set and was loading on small plates for my second set.

"Why did you remove my weights?" he asked, belligerently.

I replied, "I saw you on the pulldown machine so I figured you were finished."

"Well, I wasn't. Sorry if that inconveniences you." he intoned sarcastically.

I sweetly rejoindered, "I didn't realize you were using three pieces of equipment at one time."

Anyway, I finished my set and he spent another five minutes bemoaning his plight to the receptionist. In fact, as I write this, one hour later, he's probably still at the gym. I bet he brags to everyone how much time he spends there "training". LMAO

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Do you believe in KARMA?

I've had some interesting discussions lately with people about superstition, the Evil Eye and other such "beliefs". My former boss is Iranian and one of her clients (also Iranian) brought in an Evil Eye tree. It is an ornamental metallic tree, about 8" high, "growing" Evil Eyes like so much freaky fruit all over it. We are using it to help us win his case. These types of superstitions are not reserved solely for Iran. They occur throughout the world, in many different cultures.

You often hear people say things like "what goes around, comes around" and "he will get HIS some day ...". I'm not sure I believe in KARMA but I do think one good deed begets another. It's an age old doctrine that was revived in modern terms in the movie "Pay It Forward". But in the movie, I think you had to do two good deeds for every one that was bestowed upon you. I was reminded of this as I walked to work this morning and saw how drivers treat one another in rush hour traffic.

A girlfriend sent me an email yesterday. Apparently she asked a mutual friend about her old boyfriend (the one who treated her very badly). The rest of her email says it all: "It seems he's depressed, has an injured back, doesn't have the vacation time he used to, etc. etc. Poor thing. Can you spell....k..a..r..m..a?" She obviously feels that this man is getting repaid by the goddesses for all the hurt he caused her.

Who knows? A strong belief in anything can cause "shit" to happen. (Isn't that how religions work?) I haven't really had any bad luck lately so I must still be on the positive side of the Karma Department. So what's happening in your life lately? Do you ever feel like the world is against you for no particular reason? Time to start doing some good deeds for someone else. Maybe your luck will change ... *smile*

Monday, November 13, 2006

I Hate Mondays!

I still hate Mondays. I thought I would get over it but I haven't. It is a truly miserable way to spend 1/7 of your life. I made a point of sleeping in every Monday while not working in Mexico. It was divine! But I'm having a difficult time remembering that feeling. This morning I had to get up extra early to take my friend Winne to the train station. We hailed a taxi which was a bit of a treat for me on the way to work. I usually walk or take the bus.

So Remembrance Day was a big success, nation-wide. Did anyone watch the CBC's coverage on Saturday morning? They started their broadcast with excerpts from the eulogies of the soldiers recently lost in Afghanistan. Now that was gut wrenching to watch ... fathers, wives, sisters, brothers, friends ... all talking about these extraordinary people who had given their lives in the line of duty. I had to turn it off because I was getting too emotional.

My weekend was JAMpacked with fun. I saw family and friends. I shopped at Canadian Tire and finally got my beautiful, red tantric dishes. That's what they're called! I'm not lying -- Red Tantric Dinnerware. I am expecting big things from these dishes. LOL BTW, I did have a lunch date last week courtesy of Lavalife. He was very nice and we had a pleasant hour together over a lovely meal. Not sure if we're "made" for each other but it was a good experience none-the-less. *grin*

My grammar class is drawing to a close. I think only have four weeks left before my final exam. So far, I'm averaging over 80% on my two other tests and I expect to receive 10/10 for participation. Those who know me well know that I would never be able to sit anywhere and keep my mouth shut for very long. Ha! I got my eyes tested last week as well. Unfortunately, they did not score very high so I need to get glasses. The good news is: NO bifocals (yet).

That's all that's happening with me. What's new with you?

Friday, November 10, 2006

A Pittance Of Time

The Globe and Mail (November 2, 2006)
"A mere two minutes for our war veterans. It's so little for so much" - by ROY MacGREGOR

He just got out of bed on the wrong side of the world. He is jetlagged and tired, but still he wants to talk about his great dream.

Terry Kelly sees the entire country - all of Canada - coming to a complete stop. Cars pulling over on the highways, elevators coming to a halt, coffee shops going quiet, classes shutting down, even passenger jets falling silent as they float through Canadian airspace.

For two minutes, that's all.

As Terry Kelly says and sings, A Pittance of Time.

The Canadian entertainer is in Wellington, New Zealand, invited there by that country's equivalent of the Canadian Legion, and this week he will sing his song in a 34,000-seat rugby stadium before what is certain to be the largest audience of his career.

It is a song that was intended as a rant, a little "venting" by the blind singer-songwriter concerning an incident he overheard seven years ago this coming week in a Shoppers Drug Mart in Dartmouth, just across the harbour from his home in Halifax.

He was in the store the morning of Nov. 11, 1999, when an announcement came over the public address system that the store would be following the legion's "two minutes of silence" initiative and fall quiet at 11 a.m. to honour those who had fought, and often died, for their country.

At the 11th hour, the store went quiet. Clerks stopped stocking shelves. Cashiers stepped back from their registers. Shoppers paused and lowered their heads.

Except for one man.

He was there with his young daughter, and he was in a hurry.

He demanded a clerk's attention. He insisted on going through the cash. He was loud and obnoxious and destroyed all hope of reflection for everyone within his sound range.

When the man completed his purchase, he hustled his little girl out the doors, but not before Terry Kelly - whose superb hearing compensates for his lack of sight - picked up her plaintive "Daddy - that was embarrassing!" as the doors swung back closed and, finally, allowed the store to fall quiet.

Outraged, Kelly went home, sat down with his guitar, and slowly worked out a tune and words:

"They fought and some died for their homeland
They fought and some died now it's our land
Look at his little child, there's no fear in her eyes
Could he not show respect for other dads who have died?
"Take two minutes, would you mind?
It's a pittance of time
For the boys and the girls who went over
In peace may they rest, may we never forget why they died.
It's a pittance of time . . ."

In the song, Kelly unleashed his anger ("God forgive me for wanting to strike him") and celebrated the Canadian soldier, from those who sent letters back from the Great War to those who today send e-mails home from Afghanistan. He sang about the swift passage of time ("May we never forget our young become vets") and about the significance of that small moment we mark at the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month.

A Pittance of Time.

Warren Sonoda, a Toronto filmmaker, took the song and produced a remarkable video of Kelly performing in a Shoppers Drug Mart while the ignorant young man interrupts the silence. As the man rails at a bewildered clerk, others in the store stare in shock, including his upset daughter. And then - in a scene reminiscent of the parting of the cornstalks in Field of Dreams - a parade of veterans slowly emerges into sharp focus. Backs stiff, heads held high, shoulders squared, steps sometimes hobbled - the veterans, accompanied by soldiers from various eras, keep moving through the store until, finally, the obnoxious young man realizes what he has been disrupting.

It is a most powerful video ( WATCH THE VIDEO HERE ) and has moved everyone from elementary-school children to hardened Canadian senior officers to tears. It will play on the scoreboard of the Wellington rugby arena as Terry Kelly sings this week.

"It's all about respect," he says.

If his dream were to come true, he would have this entire country come to a stop on Nov. 11 at 11 a.m. Two minutes where every Canadian pauses - even those anxious to get through the checkout counter - and thinks about those who have worn the country's uniform.

Kelly himself once dreamed of this life - he wanted to be in the air force and fly - but he and three siblings had an inherited condition that left him totally blind and his siblings with partial vision. He was sent from St. John's to Nova Scotia to attend a special school for the blind. There he lived with "house parents" who came from the military, and they taught him to be respectful, to be disciplined, and to believe in yourself.

"For me," he says, "it was a blessing."

He never did get to fly in the air force, of course. But he has served his country, all the same.

Wear a poppy on November 11th. Don't ever forget ...

Sunday, November 05, 2006

Sunday Night

It's been a rough couple of weeks for me. There have been some changes at work and I am now working with TWO litigation partners so I feel like my workload has doubled. Good thing they are both really nice guys. I enjoy being busy but some days, it feels like there should be more than 24 hours in my day in order to enable me to do everything I want/need to do.

My friend Mike Lee finally succumbed to his cancer, after living with the knowledge of the disease for many years. Mike loved Puerto Vallarta and that's how we met. First online and then in person. We spent many evenings talking on the phone or MSN about PV, his illness and life in general. We enjoyed many laughs over drinks and dinner in PV. He had a joyful spirit. I knew he was dying but the news was still a shock when it came. Mike was six months older than me.

Vaya con dios, mi querido amigo.

The weather is changing. It's getting colder every day. I am noticing changes in my body as a result. I have dry skin and dry hair. Every time I touch a light switch in my condo, I get a static shock. I can't say that I am entirely happy about these changes but the weather in Canada is certainly consistent in its changeability. There is no doubt in my mind that this is where I want to be so I will have to find a way to cope. Any suggestions?

My circle of friends seems to have shrunk remarkably since I've been gone. Some have moved, some now have boyfriends and some have carried on without me. Oh well, that is the way life is -- nothing stays the same. I'm looking for ways to meet new people. Some of my fellow grammar students are pretty cool and I hope a few of us will be continuing on to the next course together.

I placed an ad on Kijiji (www.kijiji.ca) looking for some Spanish speakers and one of them directed me to this website: www.meetup.com. I think it is a pretty cool way to meet local people with the same interests. There's even a group of X-expats! So I'll be checking into a few of these things and letting you know what happens.

That's it for now. Sorry I haven't blogged much lately. I'm feeling a little gloomy and didn't want to burden you with my mood. But the writing helps so maybe I'll try it more often, for therapeutic purposes. Good night!

Monday, October 30, 2006

Why Wear A Poppy?


"Please buy a poppy" the lady said
And smiled at me, but I shook my head
Then I stopped and watched as she offered them there
Her face was old and lined with care.

But underneath those wrinkles the years had made
There remained a smile that refused to fade.
A lad came whistling down the street
Bouncing along on carefree feet.

His smile was full of joy and fun
"Hello Missis" he said "Can I have one?"
She pinned it on and he turned to say
"Why do we wear a poppy today?"

The lady smiled in her wistful way
And answered "This is Remembrance Day
And the poppy here is a symbol for
Those gallant young men who went to war.

And because they did, you and I are free
That is why we all wear a poppy you see.
I once had a boy about your size
With golden hair and big blue eyes

He loved to play and jump and shout
Free as a bird he would race about
As the years went by he learned and grew
And became a man - as you will too

He was fine and strong with a boyish smile
But he only stayed for a little while
When war broke out he went away
I still remember his face that day

He smiled at me and said "Goodbye,
I'll be back soon Mum so please don't cry"
But the war went on and he had to stay
And all we could do was wait and pray

His letters told of the awful fight
I read them still in my dreams at night
With the tanks and trenches and cruel barbed wire
And the mines and the bullets, the bombs and the fire

Until at last the war was won
And that's why we wear a poppy son"
The young lad turned as if to go
And said "Thanks Missis, I'm glad to know"

I shrank away in a sort of shame
And if you were me you'd have done the same
For our thanks in giving is often delayed
Though our freedom was bought - and thousands paid

And so when we see a poppy worn
Let us reflect on the burden borne
By those who gave their very all
When asked to answer their country's call
When we at home in peace might live
Then wear that poppy - remember and give

This Is Cool

This Birthday Calculator tells you how many hours and how many seconds you have been alive on this earth and when you were probably conceived. Scroll down to see what the moon looked like the night you were born.

Birthday Calculator

Sunday, October 22, 2006

It's Here!

My couch came yesterday morning and it's smaller than I remembered, which is a good thing because I was running out of room! I bought it because it is versatile. Check this out:







I can also remove all the cushions and it becomes a single bed. Right now, it's a little bit "hard" for sleeping. I must remember to put in a lot of couch time this winter in order to soften it up for overnight guests. :)

Anyway, here's what the living room looks like now:



And other than painting over a few spots in the wall and hanging a mirror, floating shelf and "La Bandida" (framed print by Marta Gilbert), I'm done! Let me know what you think ...

Thursday, October 19, 2006

*** IMPORTANT *** New Credit Card Scam

This is happening in southern Alberta right now and moving. From The Medicine Hat City Police Dept This one is pretty slick since they provide YOU with all the information, except the one piece they want.

Note, the callers do not ask for your card number; they already have it.
This information is worth reading.

By understanding how the VISA & MasterCard telephone Credit Card Scam works, you'll be better prepared to protect yourself. One of our employees was called on Wednesday from "VISA", and I was called on Thursday from" MasterCard".

The scam works like this:

Person calling says, "This is (name), and I'm calling from the Security and Fraud Department at VISA. My Badge number is 12460 , Your card has been flagged for an unusual purchase pattern, and I'm calling to verify. This would be on your VISA card which was issued by (name of bank). Did you purchase an Anti-Telemarketing Device for $497.99 from a marketing company based in Arizona?"

When you say "No", the caller continues with, "Then we will be issuing a credit to your account. This is a company we have been watching and the charges range from $297 to $497, just under the $500 purchase pattern that flags most cards. Before your next statement, the credit will be sent to (gives you your address), is that correct?"

You say "yes".

The caller continues - "I will be starting a Fraud Investigation.
If you have any questions, you should call the 1- 800 number listed on the back of your card (1-800-VISA) and ask for Security. You will need to refer to this Control Number. The caller then gives you a 6 digit number. "Do you need me to read it again?"

Here's the IMPORTANT part on how the scam works:

The caller then says, "I need to verify you are in possession of your card". He'll ask you to "turn your card over and look for some numbers".

There are 7 numbers; the first 4 are part of your card number, the next 3 are the Security Numbers that verify you are the possessor of the card. These are the numbers you sometimes use to make Internet purchases to prove you have the card. The caller will ask you to read the 3 numbers to him.

After you tell the caller the 3 numbers, he'll say, "That is correct, I just needed to verify that the card has not been lost or stolen, and that you still have your card. Do you have any other questions?" After you say no, the caller then thanks you and states, "Don't hesitate to call back if you do", and hangs up. You actually say very little, and they never ask for or tell you the card number.

But after we were called on Wednesday, we called back. Within 20 minutes to ask a question. Are we glad we did! The REAL VISA Security Department told us it was a scam and in the last 15 minutes a new purchase of $497.99 was charged to our card.

We made a real fraud report and closed the VISA account. VISA is reissuing us a new number. What the scammers want is the 3-digit PIN number on the back of the card. Don't give it to them. Instead, tell them you'll call VISA or Master Card directly for verification of their conversation.

The real VISA told us that they will never ask for anything on the card as they already know the information since they issued the card! If you give the scammers your 3 Digit PIN Number, you think you're receiving a credit.

However, by the time you get your statement you'll see charges for purchases you didn't make, and by then it's almost too late and/or more difficult to actually file a fraud report.

What makes this more remarkable is that on Thursday, I got a call from a "Jason Richardson of MasterCard" with a Word-for-word repeat of the VISA Scam. This time I didn't let him finish. I hung up! We filed a police report, as instructed by VISA. The police said they are taking several of these reports daily! They also urged us to tell everybody we know that this scam is happening. I dealt with a similar situation this morning, with the caller telling me that $3,097 had been charged to my account for plane tickets to Spain, and so on through the above routine. It appears that this Is a very active scam, and evidently quite successful.

Pass this on to all your family and friends!

Monday, October 16, 2006

Furniture Update

My girlfriends and gay friends have been bugging me for updates on furniture arrivals so here goes. I put the dining room table together but only managed to finish two of the chairs. That thing will be the death of me yet! Those manufacturers in Malaysia have a real racket going with this furniture that requires assembly.



The little red cabinet from IKEA looks adorable!



The stuff from Pier 1 arrived on Sunday. I absolutely LOVE the chair. It was handmade in Indonesia and is fashioned out of bamboo.



The coffee table is also bamboo but the glass top is from Mexico! I thought I was going to drop it when I was trying to place it on the table. I don't why I was worried. I can do anything now.



Here is a close up of the design on the coffee table.



I've purchased some interesting accent pieces. Here is a pillar candle and stand that I really like.



Any my friend Cindy bought me a gorgeous vase for my birthday. The pattern on it (which is difficult to see in this photo) is kind of woven, like the bamboo, so it certainly "works" in the room. I bought the flowers at Pier 1. They are very redly magnificent! *smile*



BTW, the couch is coming on Saturday morning. WOO HOO!!!

Monday, October 09, 2006

Giving Thanks

As some of you may know, we Canadians celebrated our Thanksgiving today. It is my favourite of all the Canadian holidays, followed by Canada Day. To me, it is a day to reflect and give thanks for all the blessings in our lives and all the wonderful advantages we enjoy in this great country. I am so very fortunate to have (1) my health (2) a great job (3) awesome friends (4) a supportive family and (5) a stellar credit rating. LOL

I've been home almost six months and there isn't a moment that I have regretted my decision to be here instead of there. So much has gone right in my life since I arrived in mid-April. I am certain, without any doubt, that this is where I am supposed to be right now. I am so certain, in fact, that I threw out all of my moving boxes. In the past, I would have kept a few of the good ones but I've really made a commitment to stay for a while.

I'm not sure what the future holds for me. My first priority is getting my home into shape. I am still waiting for more furniture to arrive (couch, another occasional chair and a coffee table) and I need to hang a huge mirror and some prints to really finish the place. I have a feeling I'll be moving the furniture around until I can get the right combination of comfort and colour. Here's what I've got so far...

A REALLY BLUE BEDROOM:


SOME IKEA FURNITURE:



AND MY DAD'S OLD RECORD CABINET:



More to follow! :)

Monday, October 02, 2006

Happy Birthday to ME!!!

I can't believe it's been year already. So much has happened in the past 12 months. I will write more later but right now, I'm off to IKEA to buy out the store. YIPPEE!!! Happy Birthday to me.

Edited to add that I spent over three hours at IKEA and only went $13 over budget. The stuff was delivered the next day in flat boxes -- all 15 of them. Now I just have to put the stuff together! LOL

Rose and Heidi took me out for dinner for my birthday. It was extra special to me because I haven't been around the actual day of my birthday in three years! So this year's celebration was very sentimental for me.





Sunday, October 01, 2006

Home Sweet Home

After three years and seven months, I am finally back in my condo. I moved in last weekend. And this weekend. And also during the week. I've been living in the same building since I came back to Toronto, sharing with another owner, living in one room, so it was just a matter of slugging stuff between floors. But now, I am finally living in my own place, which I bought almost seven years ago for less than $120K. The exact same unit, two floors above, is currently listed for sale for $225K so I guess you could say I made a good investment!

This place seems HUGE to me! It only has 660 square feet but the floor-to-ceiling, wall-to-wall windows in the bedroom make it seem larger. And I only have a desk in there so there is a ton of empty floor space. I slept in the living room last night (not much furniture there either) and when I woke up after TEN HOURS, I realized I could easily live in one room, as long as I also had a kitchen, bathroom and laundry room. Does that make four rooms or just a studio apartment?

I'm on vacation this coming week too. I don't really feel like I need a vacation but I do need the time to find some furniture. I've bought a few things but am still waiting for delivery on most things. However, yesterday, my new occasional chair from The Bay arrived. It's actually more beautiful than I imagined it would be. What do you think?



Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Free Hugs

There is something about people hugging each other that always makes me feel great. It is my favourite part of going to the airport! Hug someone you know (or don't know) today. *smile*

Watch this: FREE HUGS

Saturday, September 23, 2006

A Sea of Red


The debate continues. Should Canada be in Afghanistan? Our Prime Minister says yes. The Afghan President says yes. The 2,500 Canadian soldiers in Afghanistan are doing their duty, whether they believe in the war or not. Many Canadians hate the idea of this war and our role in it. Rosie DiManno said it best today, in The Toronto Star:

This shouldn't be about Canadians looking inwards; it should be about Canadians looking outwards, as a citizen state of the world, with values and obligations and a richness of spirit — all the finest of qualities that our soldiers embody.

And this, yesterday:

This country has a historical romance with peacekeeping. But peacekeeping is a hollow concept without fighting meat on the bone. Facts on the ground have changed and development has been compromised as a result. But there's no way, now, to jump from here to there without continuing the often perilous work of pacifying Afghanistan's most volatile areas. Building local institutions, training police, providing development assistance — none of this good and noble work can continue in the southern provinces if NATO flees from the challenges of combat.

This country gave its word. That used to mean something to Canadians.

Forget on which side of the fence you're currently sitting. Please support the troops!

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You can buy a pin, hat, tshirt or bumper sticker here.

Sunday, September 17, 2006

I Love A Parade!

On Sunday, September 17, 2006, the public is invited to join a ceremony honouring Canada’s military veterans for the sacrifices they have made, and continue to make, to protect our peace and freedom.

The ceremony will include one of the largest military parades in Toronto since the Second World War, including thousands of men and women of the Canadian Forces, cadets, veterans, bands and mounted units. The parade will begin at Fort York Armoury at 12:00 noon and proceed up Fleet Street, east on Front Street and north on University Avenue.

The march past will begin at Queen's Park at 2 p.m. and be immediately followed by the unveiling of the historic Veterans' Memorial.










For more pics, go to my Webshots Album here.

Toronto's Name

A recent comment on another blog caused me to do some research about Toronto's name.

From Wikipedia:

'Toronto' means 'place where trees stand in the water'. It is an Iroquois name referring to what is now Lake Simcoe (known as Lake Toronto at the time) to the north, where Huron Indians planted tree saplings to corral fish. The portage between Lake Ontario and Lake Huron that went this route was called the 'Toronto Portage', or 'Passage'.

Toronto has collected a number of nicknames and epithets over the past two hundred years, including Muddy York (18th-19th Century), Hogtown (Victorian), The Big Smoke (1920s), Toronto the Good (1950s), T.O. (for Toronto, Ontario) and more recently T-dot, reflecting an ebonics style of nomenclature. Some Canadians outside Toronto have referred in a derogatory manner to the city as considering itself The Centre of the Universe based on the supposed Toronto-centricity of the "national" media.

Residents often pronounce the name in a slurred manner, including Toronno, Tronno, Tronna, Taranna.

Thursday, September 14, 2006

BITCHOLOGY

When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch.

When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch.

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, they call me a bitch.

Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart. It means I live my life MY way. It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.

When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a bitch.

The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish. It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be.

I am outspoken, opinionated and determined I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!

So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.

Thanks to my friend, Cliff, for sending this to me.

Sunday, September 10, 2006

WAR! What Is It Good For?

I got two calls from Afghanistan today. My friend "Joe" is over there as part of the Canadian NATO force fighting the Taliban. He didn't call me from the FOB (Forward Operations Base) either. He called me from the field. He sounds so exhausted! They've been "outside the wire" for a month and living under a constant state of alert. Currently they are stationed on one side of dry river bed and the Taliban are on the other. They can see each other. There are rockets firing, bombs dropping and weapons blasting, every day and night.

Of the 120 guys in his company, more than 40 have been injured. Five have been killed. My friend was about 10 feet away from the blast that killed four of his comrads. He told me he was "just lucky". He helped them into body bags and sopped up the blood for others. There's a big hole in the front of their LAV (Light Armoured Vehicle) from when it got hit and a few bullet holes too. There are six guys in his crew and between them, they go through four cases of water a day. The temps are 60C during the day and 40C at night. He hasn't had a shower for a month. This is a guy who loves 30 minute showers, twice a day.

He said a 4 year old Afghani child gave him the him the finger the other day. I told him I blamed the parents. That made him laugh! He's been lifting weights (?) to help deal with the stress but they are all jumpy. The recent deaths and injuries have devastated his company. He says he doesn't have time to grieve and that he'll do it when he comes home. He's knows he's not going to be the same when he returns to Canada but he hopes the military will get him the help he needs.

He assured me that they are not peacekeeping. I assured him that we all know we're in a war now. No one in Canada is operating under the misapprehension that they are simply peacekeeping over there any more. I also told him that the people of Canada support all the troops and that seemed to give him some solace. He wants me to write him letters. They are starting to get mail drops twice a week, on Tuesdays and Fridays. They are also getting special dispensation to use the phone because they have been out in the field for so long. He decided to call me instead of his family or buddies back home because he knows I won't freak out when I hear weapons firing in the background. I waited until I got off the phone before I freaked out.

I told him I had a dream about him last night and he mentioned dreaming about me last week. He said that the country is quite beautiful and the stars are breathtaking at night. He's been sleeping on a ground sheet or in the back of the LAV. He never knew what he was getting into when he quit his civilian job and volunteered for this tour. He wants to shower, longs to sleep in a real bed and eat anything else but rations. He says there were some young guys in his company who became men within their first 72 hours outside the wire. He said he is more afraid of the camel spiders than he is of the Taliban. That made me laugh ...

Saturday, September 09, 2006

We Support Our Troops!

Things in Afghanistan are really heating up, as are things here, politically speaking. Fortunately, public support for our troops to remain in Afghanistan is currently high. A recent poll indicates that support in Quebec has even risen 10%, which is good news considering the "VanDoos" (the 22nd Regiment out of CFB Valcartier are scheduled to deploy in February 2007). At the last day of The Ex, I stopped at the military's exhibit to check out the banners they had set up for civilians to sign, with the intention of sending these banners to the troops. I was overwhelmed with the sight of them and the messages written thereon. What are your thoughts?










"YOU HAVE THE COUNTRY'S SUPPORT -- RETURN SAFELY!!!"

Friday, September 01, 2006

Favourite Things

Show me a woman who doesn't like shoes and I'll show you ... well ... a man, I guess. But not a gay man, of course. *wink* I promised my friend Sandy some time ago that I would share my "collection" with her.














At one point in my life, I had three pairs of red boots. My first pair went into the garbage because I wore them so much they fell apart and could not be repaired. I bought these boots at an outlet centre in Waterloo for less than $30. They are made by Nine West. I loved the colour of these boots. A girlfriend was "bootsitting" this pair while I was away but I recently got them back from her.














I bought these boots shortly after I moved to Toronto in 1992. Does anyone remember that fabulous boot store on Yonge Street at Gloucester? I think I paid $475 for these boots, which back then was a small fortune but I had to have them. They are Sanchos and made in Spain. They look even better now than the day I bought them. These boots are a true reflection of my personality.














These are the boots I bought in Acapulco almost 8 years ago. I think I paid less than $500 pesos for them. I wore out the soles and just got them totally reconditioned for $40. I love these boots. They remind me of my 40th birthday. My ex-boyfriend has an identical pair only in a MUCH larger size. My friend Jo-Anne never got to wear her identical pair, thanks to Air Canada losing her luggage! :(














I can't remember where I bought these boots but it might have been downtown Toronto at Winners or someplace like that. They were less than $50. They're lightweight since they're made out of nylon. They're very, VERY sexy boots and I remember buying them to impress an old boyfriend. Dumped the guy but never held that against the boots. Story of my life ... haha!


These boots are my latest acquisition and I got them by fluke. My friend Marianna was in Toronto operating a booth at The Clothing Show where I was busy shopping for a friend's birthday gift. She actually bought these boots in Amsterdam a few years ago and they were always a little bit too tight for her. Fortunately, they fit me like a glove! Made in Italy, these Guess boots are made with the softest leather you can possibly imagine. The snow will NEVER touch these boots. Thanks Marianna!

Busy Life = Happy Goddess

WOW! I have so much going on in my life right, it's kind of nuts. But I really like it this way. I love being busy. And I plan to be even busier in the near future.

First on the list is a change in residence. I'll be moving back into my condo before the end of September and I have a lot to do before then. I probably should buy some furniture. Right now, I have a bed, a desk, four wine glasses and a box of pots. LOL Fortunately I kept all my linens so I'll be comfortably ensconced in my bed and able dry myself after a shower. I just won't be able to do anything else. OK, that's a slight exaggeration but I need to buy SO MUCH STUFF. Top of the list is an ironing board, dining room table and chairs, some dishes and cutlery. I also want to get the carpets cleaned while the place is empty.

On October 7, 2006, I will have owned this condo for SEVEN YEARS so it is a bit of an anniversary for me. I'm quite excited. It's almost new to me again since I haven't lived there in more than three and a half years. I have to arrange for internet and cable. I want a TV too (winter is coming and there are so many movies I haven't seen) so I've asked my Dad to take me shopping for electronics this weekend. Should be fun!

I've already bought a couch and a chair at The Bay. I kind of went over budget on them but I've decided that I'm old enough to buy something that I WANT as opposed to simply buying something that I can AFFORD. Besides, I was able to defer paying for a year so that will help me to budget for everything else. The couch is very contemporary and versatile. It will also double as a single bed for overnight guests. Much trendier than a sofa bed and actually less cumbersome.

Next on the list is brain development. I've always liked taking courses. Even in Mexico, I took Spanish lessons. Although, Scott and I spent more time explaining the many English uses for the word "fuck" to Lupe, our Mexican tutor ... *giggle*. I thought about more Spanish lessons here in Toronto but I found something EVEN BETTER! I discovered that I can actually get an "Editing Certificate" from my local community college. I'm so excited! I start class on Tuesday. Guess what the first compulsory course is? "Essential Grammar"!!! If I pass (like there's any doubt), I will be absolutely, positively, UNSTOPPABLE. I can't wait to begin.

The last piece of the full and happy life of a Goddess is volunteer work. I got a taste for it in Vallarta and I want to do more. So I jumped online (remember, Google is your friend!) and I typed in "Toronto + volunteer". I found the Volunteer Centre for Toronto where I was able to search for a volunteer position that suited my availability and administrative bent. I found the perfect thing! I am going to volunteer, every second Saturday afternoon at The Bata Shoe Museum. Imagine the odds of a self-proclaimed shoe-aholic finding such a position?

Life is good.

For Rosa ...

Tuesday, August 29, 2006

Let's Go To The Ex!

I went to The Canadian National Exhibition ("The Ex") last Sunday. I didn't go last year because I wasn't home at the end of August so I was really looking forward to continuing my annual tradition. Unfortunately, all my girlfriends have grown up and none of them really likes going to The Ex so I was reconciled to going alone. Sometimes that works out better for me because then I can go wherever I want.

I arrived around 1PM via streetcar, which takes you right into the exhibition grounds. I had already bought my reduced price pass for $7 at work so I was able to walk right in after they scanned my pass. I headed straight to the Food Building and after a quick look around, I came out the other side and walked right into one of the women from work! What a small world ... she was there with her family. After a quick hello, I headed over to The Better Living Building. Only it isn't there anymore! They're tearing it down or renovating it so I settled on the Arts & Crafts building. Lots of cool stuff in there: jewellery, decorative pillows and lamps, spices, jams, jellies, wood carvings, purses, hats, clothing, candy, etc. etc. etc. I bought some expensive jam. (Get it? JAM bought jam! LOL)

Next I headed over to the Sports and Leisure building. Other than the usual huge bikini retailer (with no change rooms to try on anything!), there were a couple of cheesy sports displays, some massage therapists and one great OBUS forme backpack sales kiosk. I almost bought a HEYS brand mini knapsack for $25. I'm always thinking in advance of my trip to Europe next spring as I've heard the pickpockets in Barcelona are quite prolific! So I need something other than a regular purse to guard my valuables. But I don't want to look like a tourist so the search is on for something chic yet versatile. After a quick browse through an area selling books (4 for $10), a made my way back to the Food Building.

The same people are there every year, selling the same grubb, almost in exactly the same spot! The only difference I noticed over two years ago was that the Tiny Tom Donuts stand was inside instead of outside. There is Greek food, Italian food, Jamaican food, German food, Chinese food, fish & chips, pizza, BBQ ribs and burgers, hot fried waffles served with ice cream and, of course, french fries. I have these so rarely that I always treat myself at The Ex with a small serving. If I bought a large, there is no doubt that I would eat them all. I absolutely love french fries over any other food, including chocolate. Shocking, isn't it?

Finally, I was ready for my favourite part of The Ex: The Direct Energy Centre. It used to be called the National Trade Centre but I simply remember it as the newest (and biggest) building on the Exhibition grounds with four or five separate salons filled people hawking their wares from all over the world. It's like a huge international marketplace with goodies from Brazil, Canada (!), China, Egypt, India, Iran, Ireland, Italy, Pakistan, Peru, Poland, and many others I can't remember right now. I bought a set of hand towels and matching face cloths for $7, a funky necklace for $15 and a pair of earrings for $3. I also saw 50 million other things I wanted to buy but I was getting pretty tired by this point so I called it a day.

I climbed aboard a streetcar to take me home sometime after 6PM, after spending approximately FIVE HOURS walking around The Ex. My feet were sore and my back was aching. I can't wait to go back again on Labour Day Monday!!! *grin*

Sunday, August 27, 2006

Commenting on My Blog

The beauty of it being MY blog, is that I get to moderate all comments.

So, in response to the weak and spiteful individual who tried to post an inflamatory comment this morning: Na na na na na!

LOL

Thursday, August 24, 2006

Mexico Comes To Toronto - Part 2

Last Friday (was it really over a week ago?), Dave and Isabel Manore hosted a Mexican Fiesta at the Madison. The Mad is a well-known and very popular pub in downtown Toronto. Dave and Isabel also own a boutique hotel in Puerto Vallarta called, appropriately enough, Casa Isabel. Every year they have this big party. We pay admission and that includes all our food and at least one drink. There is a silent auction and live music. It was a beautiful summer night. Isabel subsequently told me they raised $6,000 CDN to benefit the Becas Foundation, a PV charity which raises funds for children's education. Anyway, here's a few pics of the festivities. The Goddesses, of course, were there (we can't resist a party!) as well as some friends from two borders south. Enjoy!



















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Wednesday, August 23, 2006

Cell Phone Stupidity

Those of you who know me well, know my feelings about cell phones. I hate them. I think they were invented by Dr. Evil. The REAL Dr. Evil, not Mike Myers' baby finger sucking, coyly bald Dr. Evil. I owned a cell phone, once. I owned it for a year. Or should I say, it owned me. I didn't have a land line where I was living and my work needed to reach me so I was required to get a cell phone. *sigh* It was the worse year of my life, communicatively speaking. Don't get me wrong. I love talking on the phone. I can (and do) spend hours talking on the phone. It is right up there with shopping for shoes and dinner with the Goddesses.

Still, the cell phone was always THERE. Always ON. I had to take it with me EVERYWHERE. When I didn't, people would call me and give me shit for not answering the phone WHEN THEY CALLED. They hated leaving a message because it gave me the control as to when I called them back, not the other way around. And I was constantly feeding cards into the damn thing. Then I would get these text messages in Spanish, which I could never understand. And if I ever had to recall a message, I had to go through the menu in Spanish. I didn't know what the hell she was saying but I got to know which numbers to press to bypass her. I hated that bitch! LOL

Recently, I've witnessed some pretty stupid cell phone behaviour. For example, at work (I work in law office), we all have phones on our desk. Mine is a regular office phone with my number, my boss' number, a hold button, flashing lights, etc. I use it to make calls to other people and people can call me on it. What an invention! Anyway, I work with people who own cell phones which, by the way, are not allowed in the office. Regardless of this rule (and numerous other rules which have apparently been made for the sole purpose of being broken), cell phones ring in my office all the time. And they don't ring ring. They play stupid little songs. Or buzz. Or beep. Every time a different one goes off, I think it is the fire alarm.

A couple of weeks ago, the Goddesses and I met for dinner at a local steakhouse in the Village, recently renovated. OK, it was The Keg Mansion on Jarvis. We had drinks in the bar at 7PM and were showed to our table around 8PM. About an hour later, a young family came into the restaurant. Mother, father and a young daughter who was approximately 7 years old. They were a beautiful family and seemed relatively normal until the cell phones were placed on the table. Then all semblance of the "happy family" disappeared. First the wife's cell phone rang and she answered it. The caller must have asked, "What are you doing?" because her response was "Not much. What's new with you?" NOT MUCH??? She's out for dinner with HER FAMILY and she takes a personal call. Since when do cell phones replace human beings? GRRR!!! She hung up and then the husband's cell phone rang. Same scenario. It was pathetic. I wonder if they call each other from opposite sides of the bed to say goodnight.

I've also seen this happen in the dog park. Picture this scene. It's a beautiful, warm, sunny morning. You are going crazy, waiting for your master to take you for your "morning constitution". It is the highlight of your day! Your owner grabs his keys, your ball, affixes your leash and heads out the door. But he can't forget the cell phone! Just in case someone needs to call him at 8AM and ask him for his opinion about the state of the economy. So there you are, in the park, your most favourite place in the whole world, with the person you love the most. And he's got the ball, which you're dying to chase and slobber all over. Trouble is, Master Dearest is too busy on his cell phone to pay much attention to you and your needs. So you bark and jump up and down, trying to get his attention for just two seconds. Just long enough for him to throw the ball. It's a very sad thing to see. Even sadder when you substitute a SMALL CHILD for the dog. I've seen it. Disgusting behaviour by people who are more attached to a small electronic device than to their own family, friends or other human beings.

I used to date a really nice guy, and his cell phone. We fought about it constantly. I wanted it off. He wanted it on. I won. The woman always wins in arguments like this. We have the ultimate trump card. Hehe! I recently talked to a guy from a dating website who had a similar experience but with a business associate. These two bachelors met through business and decided to hit a patio and do some serious girl-watching. Bachelor #1 (my friend) was looking forward to enjoying a drink and some good old-fashioned "guy talk". Bachelor #2 took a call on his cell phone five minutes after they sat down and proceeded to talk for longer than 20 minutes to someone not even there. Bachelor #1 was pissed but did nothing. I couldn't sit for longer than TWO minutes without saying something! I don't know where he found the restraint.

So many people in Canada have cell phones now that they are starting to take out the phone booths. This really ticks me off because I don't have a cell phone. I don't want a cell phone. I have no intention of EVER BUYING A CELL PHONE. I somehow need to communicate this need to the phone company. I figure I'll have to make a trip out to the airport to call them. *sigh* I have to stop now before I really get worked up. I need to go to bed and I won't be able to sleep if I carry on with this rant much longer.

Friday, August 18, 2006

End Breast Cancer

Here is an awesome way to help continue the fight against Breast Cancer. Frito-Lay of Canada is donating $1 to End Breast Cancer for every person that signs onto their site this weekend.

They are committed to raising up to $100,000 through this site. I just signed on myself and they are presently at $17,235+. There is a long way to hitting $100,000 and we need your help.

There are no other obligations by signing on, and you won't receive any other emails or offers from them, unless you check off the box to get them. So please, just take a minute, and click onto their website, and please forward it to your friends.

Click Here

Thanks for reading!

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Mexico Comes To Toronto - Part 1

Earlier this month, I received an email from Carmen, the owner of El Arrayan, one my favourite restaurants in Puerto Vallarta. She and her partner, Claudia, were coming to Canada on vacation and I made her promise to contact me with their itinerary. The email came with a request for help. Could I find them a hotel for one night and also help them get tickets for the train between Toronto to Montreal? No problema! I booked the hotel for their late arrival and met them for lunch the next day with train tickets in hand.

A week later, they returned to Toronto and we arranged to meet for dinner. As they were staying with friends in the Beaches, I took a streetcar out there one night last week and we had a marvelous dinner! I think I ate the BEST guacamole I've ever had in MY LIFE -- it was chunky, not pureed. (I hate that mushy stuff!) The conversation was in English and Spanish and I'm happy to say, I've retained a lot of my second language since April.

Anyway, I can't resist another plug for Carmen's absolutely AMAZING restaurant in Vallarta. There's a reason they were voted #1! Her filet mignon with mole sauce is one of the few things I miss about living there. Here's a pic of Carmen and me enjoying a local brew:

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

Get Involved!

I am posting this as a favour for a friend:

Hi Juliana, I have a petition online to request Wasaga Beach Council make changes to the burning by-law. With our denser population, hundreds of fires can burn here at any time. The air is so bad (worse than any bad day in Toronto) and tourists are actually complaining about the air quality. I don't know if you've been here lately, but it's absolutely unacceptable. I have a petition and a video showing what I'm talking about on my website.

First Article on the Page

I'd appreciate if you could sign the petition and send it along to anyone else who cares about the environment.
Please take a moment to sign her petition. I did.

Thursday, August 10, 2006

A Worthy Cause

I don't usually ask people for money but this is a very worthy cause. I sponsored myself for $20 and I encourage you to match that amount, if possible. However, please feel free to donate as little as $5 or $10. Every little bit helps! And thank you very much for your pledge.

Juliana

The Ride for Diabetes Research is a highly successful fundraising event for diabetes research in Canada thanks to people like you who are supporting our participants by making a pledge donation. By pledging me, your money will be going towards finding a cure for this disease by funding some of the most progressive research in the world, with some of the biggest breakthroughs coming from Canada.

You can pledge quickly and safely through our secure on-line pledge option. An electronic tax receipt will be e-mailed directly to you. Click on the following link to use your VISA, MasterCard or American Express.

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For more information about the Ride for Diabetes Research and Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, please visit www.jdrf.ca. Again, thank you for your support.

Tuesday, August 01, 2006

Hot, Hot, HOT!!!

I remember last summer in Mexico and living in hot temps with high humidity for months on end. I also remember thinking that the summers in Canada were much more pleasant and I couldn't wait to get home to one. Well ... today we reached 35C in Toronto and, with the humidex (an odious Canadian invention, by the way), it felt like 47C on the skin. For all my American readers, that's 116.6F or HOT!!!

Last night apparently was the hottest night on record in Toronto. I slept with the window open, the fan OFF, wore pjs and slept under a sheet and comforter. I guess I'm still acclimated to down south. I wouldn't mind my blood thickening a bit before the fall and winter get here. Thank the Goddess I still have all my cold weather clothing.

The AC is a mixed blessing. I have it on now (5:45PM) because this is, in my opinion, the hottest part of the day, but I will turn it off before bed and open my window once again. Unfortunately, I can't do anything about it at work and am constantly complaining about the cold. I seem to have a constant scratchy throat from it. The weather will break soon, I hope.

We have another long weekend coming up and, other than Caribana, which I have no intention of attending, there isn't a lot going on around town. I might take a couple of day trips to outlying areas for a change of scenery or try to catch a movie. What do you have planned for this weekend? Whatever you do, stay cool and well hydrated. Dehydration is a very serious condition and it kind of sneaks up on you without warning. Take care and be careful.

Sunday, July 30, 2006

Repatriation

re·pa·tri·ate

To restore or return to the country of birth, citizenship, or origin

I heard this phrase used on the news the other day and thought of my own repatriation. I'm not sure it's going so well. I'm still living in one room and sharing the rest of the condo with my roommate. It's her place so I'm feeling a little bit like an unwelcome houseguest, even though I pay rent and buy my own food and supplies. There's just something about being in your own place isn't there?

To that end, I will be moving back into my condo on October 1st. Considering my birthday is October 2nd and my anniversary of buying the place is October 7th, this date seems rather auspicious to me. Unfortunately, I don't own very much -- a bed, a desk, a box of pots, some wineglasses, linens and towels. My Dad is giving me a couple of plastic lawn chairs and an old stereo cabinet so I'm not entirely destitute. And my Mom's giving me a vaccuum cleaner. LOL

But I keep feeling like I'm caught in a bit of a twilight zone ...

I find myself still drawn back into discussions about Puerto Vallarta and I'm still getting emails from people who think I can help them with vacation accomodations and tourist attractons. But I'm really not interested. The more news I receive from down there (parks being plowed under, pollution, storms, crooked politicians, unbearably hot weather, blah, blah, blah), the happier I am to be here. So I think it is important not to dwell on my old life there and concentrate on bulding my new life here.

Monday, July 24, 2006

Pickle Power!

Aliens. Pickles. A misunderstanding. This is the first of three brand new tv spots for Bicks Pickles.

Watch this!

P.S. It's Canadian eh!
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Sunday, July 09, 2006

Summer In The City

It's been a wild weekend here in Toronto. As if World Cup soccer wasn't enough, there were 18 events happening there this weekend. Included among them was the Molson Grand Prix (closing down the Lakeshore), the Toronto Outdoor Art Exhibition (Nathan Phillips Square), Celebrate Toronto Street Festival (held at four major intersections along Yonge Street), Taste of Lawrence Festival (on Lawrence Street, naturally) and Corso Italia Toronto Fiesta (in Little Italy). The last event will be extended until the wee hours of the morning given Italy's win over France. The last time they won, St. Clair West was packed with half a million Italian-Canadians celebrating.

I love the city in the summer but it is getting exceedingly difficult to decide what to do! Thank the Goddess I don't drive because with all the street closures, I can only imagine how long it was taking people to get around town. Living downtown does have its advantages. I can walk everywhere! On Saturday, I gave my girlfriend's kids a bit of walking tour. We meandered down The Esplanade, cut through the St. Lawrence Market, strolled past the Flatiron Building with its beautiful three storey mural, admired the architecture inside BCE Place, zipped through the underground to Union Station and walked along Skywalk to the foot of the CN Tower.

From there, we headed down to Harbourfront to enjoy the free music, buskers, the international marketplace, the world cafe and the breeze off the Lake. I think the kids enjoyed themselves. What do you think?














This is my "little" godson, Martin Luc. He's taller than me now. *sigh*














And here is his sister, Julie Marie (my namesake) with younger brother, John Patrick, enjoying their ice cream (and that's their Dad, reading).

Saturday, July 08, 2006

Luck Has Nothing To Do With It

I had a conversation this week with someone who was consoling a friend whose partner had dumped her on a special occasion. And another time, the same person had been dumped on her birthday. And yet another time, on Valentine's Day. My friend seemed to think that this was all just "bad luck" for this poor person and my comment was that her friend was the one common denominator in all those relationships and must take at least some responsibility for what happened to her. Good or bad, luck had nothing to do with it.

People often tell me I'm lucky to have lived in Mexico, like I just woke up one morning and decided *BAM*, I'm moving to Mexico! It took a lot of planning, hard work (two jobs), downsizing (selling almost everything I owned), changing my lifestyle (putting a tenant in my condo and renting a single room for more than a year). As I've said to people over and over again, luck had nothing to do with it.

Now that I'm back, I found a place to live in my own building and I started a job, on the date and at the salary I wanted. You think that's lucky? BAH! What people don't know is I spent hours on the phone and internet, searching for a place to live, trying to set up interviews long distance, posting my resume online, etc. Again, luck had nothing to do with it.

I had a conversation this morning with my dear friend, M.A., who knows me better (and longer) than anyone. We were talking about my job and she said she wasn't surprised when I got the money I wanted and started the date I said I would. She said I have an ability to focus on what I want and to work towards it with determination. A positive attitude is also imporant. Apparently, luck has absolutely nothing to do with it!

Friday, July 07, 2006

A Not So Typical Friday

On the way out of my building this morning, I nearly got into an altercation with a man who wanted to walk in as I was walking out. Previously, he was trying to use the console to get buzzed in but when he saw me, he made a beeline for the door. I assured him that I was NOT going to let him in. He was quite pissed. LOL

Walking down the Esplanade, an older man jogged towards me wearing the usual shorts and tshirt, running shoes and socks. But he was also wearing a headband AND navy blue gloves. What the f*^%?

As I was cutting throught the Market, I noticed a man and woman walking together, obviously shopping for produce. The man was wearing baggy sweat pants and as I passed them, he was scratching his crotch rather vigorously.

Prodeeding down Front Street, I passed a young boy on a scooter, wearing shorts, tshirt, a ballcap and a floor length black cape tied around his neck. Super Scooter?

And finally, as I turned the corner towards BCE Place, I passed an overweight man wearing a Hooters tshirt from North Carolina. It had a HUGE coffee stain on the front of it, right under the "HOOT". That one made me laugh out loud and draw the following conclusion:

BOYS ARE STUPID!

Have a nice day ...

Wednesday, July 05, 2006

Six Degrees of Separation

My girlfriends always joke that I know everybody. This is patently untrue. How could I know everyone in the whole world? I still haven't met that guy in Outer Mongolia although he has promised we can do lunch the next time he's in Toronto. *grin*

Anyway, another example to support my friends' cockamamy theory happened last week when we were all attending a wine tasting. We met a woman there who asked me where I worked. When I told her the name of the firm, she said:

"Well I know it is a big office so I'm sure you don't know the person there who I know."

I said, "You're probably right. We're on 5 floors and I've only been there two months. So what is your friend's name?"

She: "Diane Smith" (name changed to protect anonomity)

Me: "I sit right beside her!"

And so it goes ... the world is a very, VERY small place. *wink*

Sunday, June 25, 2006

More Pride Photos


I went to the parade today. Next to San Francisco, Toronto has the largest Pride parade in North America. It was a beautiful sunny day here today. I hope you enjoy the photos as much as I enjoyed taking them!

Pride Parade 2006

Thursday, June 22, 2006

My New Look


I had a few too many drinks the other night ... LOL

Party With Pride

My life is rife with Geminis. As a result, I've been busy with birthdays lately. On Tuesday night, I was invited to join some friends in The Village to celebrate two birthdays. We met for dinner at Cafe California which, coincidentally was hosting the Fourth Annual Men's Underwear Fashion Show from The Bay. It's Pride Week in Toronto and this restaurant is in the heart of The Village. Or course, wild horses couldn't keep me away from this event ... LOL For a close up and personal view of what I saw, check out this slideshow.

Sunday, June 11, 2006

Honour Thy Father

My Dad lives in a townhouse complex where, every year, they have a communal garage sale. I offered to come down and lend a hand, bringing a few of my own things to sell. I took the train late Friday afternoon from Toronto to Kitchener. Normally, it costs $27 to travel about 100 kms but with a $10 off coupon from work, it only cost me $17. Dad was there waiting for me. Whenever we're at the Kitchener train station together, I always think back to April 1984, when I joined the military. My Dad took me to the station so I could catch the train to CFB Trenton, where we were going to catch a military flight down east for my basic training.

Anyway, my Dad got on board the train with me, obstensibly to help me with my bags but I knew he just wanted to hang around and delay saying goodbye. I was sitting with 3 guys who were also new recruits and we were all nervously optimistic about our upcoming adventure. Eventually the train started moving and my Dad was still on board. As the train started pulling out of the station, he hugged me goodbye one last time and then went looking for one of the train officials so he could get off the train. We felt the train stop and as I looked out the window, I could see my Dad, standing there at the side of the tracks, waving goodbye to the train. That's just the kind of guy my Dad is ...

MY DAD'S FAVOURITE SWEATSHIRT














WHAT THE SWEATSHIRT REALLY SAYS














MY DAD














BTW, that hat he's wearing is made in Mexico. He bought it in Dallas, Texas during one of his visits to see my brother. Another funny Mexican-related thing happened during the garage sale. Two couples came to look at our stuff and I noticed they were speaking Spanish to one another so I asked them, in Spanish, where they were from. They answered Veracruz and then the conversation flowed, in Spanish and English (for my Dad's benefit). I learned that they had only been in Canada for one year and were there to eventually work on the 2010 Olympics in Vancouver. BTW, they absolutely LOVE Canada and the husband, Mario, told me he felt it was much better for them than going to the U.S.A.

Try to spend some time with your father this upcoming weekend.